Showing posts with label self-esteem. Show all posts
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Saturday, February 26, 2011

Managing Your Manager - Getting Things Done.

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Managing Your Manager - Getting Things Done.



Note: This article was authored by Douglas Castle, Chairman and CEO of TNNWC Group, LLC, and was originally published in the TAKING COMMAND Blog at http://TakingCommand.blogspot.com . Become a Member of TNNWC and begin enjoying the benefits immediately - at no charge - by clicking on the "JOIN US" button on http://www.tnnwc.com/.


Dear Commanders-In-Training:

You can be in a position of command regardless of your rank within the heirarchy of an organization, and regardless of the nature of your work or title.

Part of your job is to get things done. When you do, you benefit personally as well as professionally, as do all of the members of your organization. Anything that enables you to be more efficient and effective is something of benefit.

One of the greatest failings which a commander can have is an inability to "manage his or her manager." You must learn how to do this. It requires that you assess what is expected of you, and that you indicate, in clear, organized terms, what resources that your manager should be assisting you with or providing with in order for you to of best benefit to him or her.

When you manage your manager, you are doing it for three purposes:

1) To make your manager look better because of the fact that you are able to perform your function better;

2) To do your job with more resources, support and appreciation;

3) To reduce your workload to a manageable level.


Managing your manager is especially key if you are generous and hard-working by your nature. It is a means of showing your value to your manager, and of promoting yourself.

If you fail to manage your manager (who should never be assumed to be aware of your difficulties or appreciative of your efforts), you will not be in command. If you are successful at managing your manager, you will both ultimately benefit. As an added bonus, you will invariably make yourself more highly visible, more readily promotable.

Management is a two-way street. Your manager will have to work with you if you are to work for him or her.

Just be certain to be clear, factual and pleasant (yet assertive) when you manage an individual who perceives himself or herself as your senior, supervisor or superior. Communicate with maximum eye contact, minimum fidgeting, and a clear, controlled matter-of-fact voice. Now go and do it. 

Summary: Graduate from the dimly-lit, poorly-ventilated mailroom to the CEO's posh corner office (with mini astro-turf putting green) by learning to manage your manager, as well as by learning to manage your employees.

Faithfully,

Douglas Castle

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Saturday, June 06, 2009

THE MORE YOU GIVE...

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Dear Friends:

We were taught, as children, that you have to give to others in order to receive from them. It seemed to follow that "the more that you give, the more that you will get." Pundits, success coaches and pop psychologists still cite the mantra that "you will acquire great wealth by helping others, and by fulfilling their needs."

I hesitate to point out to them such contrarian examples as Jesus Christ, Mother Theresa, and other great givers. Perhaps my mistake is in the timing of cause and effect -- perhaps I could be more comfortable with this generosity mantra if someone were to say to me instead that, "the more that you give in this life, the more you will receive (karmically, or through some other hermetic mechanism) in the next life." Of course, I would need certain guarantees regarding the hereafter in order to fully buy in.

The truth, at least during this life: The more you give, the more people will take. The more you give, the more people will demand. The more you give, the more people will feel that they are entitled to from you. The more you give, the less valuable will be the perception of your contribution, which will be taken for granted after a time. The more you give, the more depleted you will be. And if you continue to give beyond your means, or without adequate reward, the more embittered and impoverished you will become.

A solution: Give just enough to demonstrate good faith and competence. Thereafter, request reasonable compensation in exchange for what you provide. Conduct yourself on the assumption that Human Nature is such that you will not be paid, compensated or truly appreciated unless you demand of the recipients the respect that compensation affords. Uncompensated work tends to go unvalued, and speaks of either too much idle time or low self-esteem, neither of which makes you look particularly good. You can only afford to give to charity if you basic needs are met. Further, you cannot be a great philanthropist unless you are rich.

If you wish to be charitable and philanthropic, focus on getting adequately compensated firstly, and not secondly. Always be clear on the cause and effect. This is not an endorsement of selfishness or excessive greed -- this is merely a statement of priorities.
If you are a good-natured and talented or skilled soul, you will find your greatest challenge to be in creating and maintaining boundaries to enforce this directive. Taking Command is sometimes painful, but the rewards are great.

As a financial planning consultant once said to me..."Douglas, I can get all the clients I want if I don't charge fees." Thirty years later, I say, belatedly, "Amen!"

Don't sell yourself short. Ever.

Faithfully,

Douglas Castle


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